Chatty, I am new here, and haven't had much experience posting except on a dog website. One thing I've learned is that sometimes what we post seems a little harsh because we only see the words. If we said the same sentence in person, we would use facial expressions, body language, voice inflection etc. which adds to and softens the words. That's why if someone does sound a little harsh, I forgive it and I hope you all would do the same for me.

I will look for your post.