Dreamer,
Just 2 days ago I was Googling for a sight such as this with an emphasis on women like myself.
I found mostly radical generation X type sites.
Or conversly, SAHM sites with a heavy emphasis on children. While I am a SAHM, I feel I'm in the middle of the two groups (seeking a balance between me and my boys). I saw a term calling us "contemporary SAHMS".

So far, no luck in finding such a site.