Dotsie, the way these calls are initiated is that a man in either home alone or the wife is asleep in another part of the house, or he's single/divored/widowed. Sometimes they are in a hotel on the road or on their cell phone. We don't do 900 calls because of the restrictions etc. and its too hard to control the older kids who sound like adults. The caller uses his or her credit card and its billed as a computer compny so the wife or company doesn't catch on. An average call lasts 15 minutes or less because this company limits the time to keep the callers bill lower. They call oftener that way. Once I've been given a call, I ask his or her name and ask what they look like. Then I describe myself, whoever I'm playing that day. FRom dark, dominant Mistress Raven, or tall busty, blonde stripper Nicole, depending on what the caller wants this is where the most important part of the caLL comes in, I LISTEN to what the caller is saying. You can usually tell by how he stutters and acts embarassed what he likes. Some callers just want to chit chat about my sex lie, how old was I when I did it? Some just want to tell you a sad story about how the wife won't do this or do that, ho hum, but I act sooo interested. Some men have nasty fantasies and kinow they can tellus and no one else. I talk to alot, mostly married men, some say happily married but they have a fetish the wife wouldn't understand. I could get graphic here but would probably get drummed out of the Boomers, LOL..I have talked to Politicians, Famous entertainers TV and Movie personalities etc., CEO's and every type of man from all walks of life. A couple of my regular gift sending callerts were over 70. The company I was with for 9 years was wonderful, we had 401K, Health/Life Ins. Paid vacations etc. I kept file cards on my callers after the 3rd call and I had over 2000 when the company was sold. You may not believe this but I have a full box of jewelry sent to me, diamonds,Dakota gold and I had a special account at the bank (still do)where I use my fake names to sign the back of the checks I got as gifts, the largest one was for $13000.00. This guy wanted me to have a newer dependable car to drive to and from the dance club late at night. And yes my friends loved to listen to my stories of the night, and would call just to ask, what did you get today? I think its the best job I ever had and I've had some really good jobs. Here I treated myself like a movie star, I had my hair done, nails done, pedicures etc. I wanted to look the part and then I felt the part. Its not that kind of business now, the callers have changed to bim bam thank you mame. No comnpany pays salary, your a 1099 Independent and you sign in and out as you please so no sick days or vacations are necessary. I was 44 when I started this job. My characters were 20 somethings and today at 63 my charfacters are 30. The company I work for is called ZMC and he employs women from all around the country. He pays a fair wage and I do okay, but NOTHING like it once was. For those of you out there to shy to ask call up www.telefetish.com and follow the instructions. It'll show you what we do and theres an employment application there too, (very descrite) all these guys want is a sexy voice that acts interested to hear what they have to say, BORING mostly but EASY and at $5.00 a call minimum you can do okay, right in the privacy of your own home. If your lucky you might hit a jackpot, I've hit many over the years. Beats the hell out of shlupping out to work everyday, gas prices, make-up, clothes, cleaning. I work in my jammies, t-shirt dresses, sweats even naked if I want to. I still talk about my job and people still ask questions and we just laugh, think about people this is funny...I am 63, a grandmother, overweight is a kind description and men in their 20's, 30's, and so on fall in lust with me. If thats not funny I don't know what is. I am a Phone Sex Goddess. Hesrs my personal email if anyone wants to talk escspeddlers2@msn.com

Gifts? Even cash!? Did you use the 13,000 for a car? Did you go to dance clubs at night, or did he just think that? Had you met him in person? AND why am I the only one so curious about all this?

You are right in keeping your graphics under wraps. Even though we're all adults, I don't want to get carried away in here. What an interesting job. Have you ever thought about writing a book about that business? I bet it would sell.

You're not the only one curious Dots. I can't believe some men buy into a fantasy so much they literally buy in. You must be really good at what you do.

I'd also like to hear more about the other writing work your doing. HOw far along are you, what are they about, etc.

Dotsie, the good old days of cash and gifts is pretty much a thing of the past depending on the service you work for. These new ones don't promote your being involved with the caller, just do the call and go on to ther next one is their motto.We use to hasve file cards on these men but I personally don't anymore. No I didn't use ther money for a car. My car was only about 7 months old. The car thing was a lie. No I never go to the dance clubs, another lie, I say that I am a stripper and thats what these men picture in their minds. Yes I just finished a book that was oedered from me about phone sex by Chastity Publ. in Canada, its 8 short storys in one book. Its called: TOPS & bottoms....
Candice, I guess I am good at what I do, I have a sexy vooice and am good at story telling...You might find it hard to believe BUT we never meet these men because we are US, and we use gorgeous models photos pretending to be them, theres a real big difference, get it? I say I'm only 20, or 30 and a nude dancer onthe strip. Can you imagine if I met one of these men, me really being 63 and a fatty. Its all smoke and mirrors but these guys want the hype and seem to need it. Most of the men I talk to are married men, the dogs...

My writing, lets see, since Jan. 27th I have 8 manuscripts out.

1)When Fantasys Come True...about a young woman who has very arousing fantasys and then meets her fantasy in person (Erotica.)

2)Murders On Highway 101....A young woman attacked by some drunken truckers, lives through the ordeal and becomes a serial killer of truckers during rainstorms(Psycological thriller)

3)Arnolds Big Problem....Contest about 4 young boys stuck on an Island during a fishing trip, when there boat floats away in a storm.(Young Adult story)

4)Silent Partner....You hear a womans thought through the entire book and think shes dying until a miracle occurs and her silent partner appears.(Chicken Soup For The Soul)

5)A Smile, A Cookie & A Hug....About my mom, another (Chicken soup for the soul)

6)A Fat Girls Lament.....Tells what happens to this fatty at the partys she goes to.(Poetry)

7)Blackout...story is based in a small backwoods community in MN. The residents have always enjoyed peaceful days and quiet nights, safe from big city crime. Then the unthinkable happens and a serial killer is literally thrust into their midst aqnd people begin to disappear. (Psychological Thriller and my baby)

8) TOPS & bottoms, Storys of Domination....Short stories taken from phone sex calls.(Erotica)

Any of my stories can be read by asking me and I'll send them to you to check out.

Theres one more called: A Snowy Christmas For Jason about a 4year old boy that never saw snow and asked his Dad, what is snow and the rest is history, its a true story. (Childrens)

I am a serious writer and write constantly...I guess its my passion. Thanks for asking.