I could put this in a fine whine but it sort of leads off from this discussion topic...going to church at the moment just makes me...sad, angry, emotionally exhausted...there are changes and gaps and I just feel angry that people have taken the easy choice of leaving instead of staying to sort things out...I haven't much time to participate in church life at the moment but I have in the past and I feel let down by this congregation when I needed them to be a quiet place of worship and support at this time in my life...I get more sustenance for my spiritual life from a quiet hour on the beach than I do from this church at the moment