Whirlwind, which BF is this? Just curious to see what he means to you.

The remark could have been off the cuff, but if it offended you, there was something behind it. You could be taking it wrong, or it could have been intended as mean. But it offended you and that was real. It also seems to have bothered him that you were offended and he acted out by drinking.

I think that both of you have some hidden issues, and if you are interested in making this a relationship, you both need to address these issues. Could it be both of you are trying to decide what each other means to each other?

I hope I haven't over-stepped....
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