Crosstitch Queen, I can empathize with your pain ...I went thru the exact same thing with my Father and my MotherInLaw over the last few years...the most difficult part for me was to watch these once vibrant personalities slowly fade and then seem to as you say "disappear" before my eyes..Daddy had Alzheimers but could still remember things from his early life and so I would try to draw him out by asking him about his college years or his days in the Army...at those times he would become animated and I could see glimpses of the way he was...stay strong...and good luck with the move tomorrow....
God Bless you and your Mom.
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Nancy

People may not remember exactly what you said or what you did...but they will always remember how you made them feel