Oh gosh, I thought I was losing it. I knew I answered your question allready...and I found the answer under the Home Again thread. Whew....scary.

Mom is physically doing pretty well. I just spoke to the doctor today and asked him to give her light anti-depressent medication. She is so down. No will to live anymore. I bought a karoke DVD with old German songs. We sang them together, this afternoon, and that got a smile on her face. Little steps...that's all.

Yes, I agree JJ...sneak check ups are the best. I think Dotsie once mentioned that they do that allready. And maybe a box of chocolates for the nurses. Bribery does help.
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As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.
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