I"m sorry you had to endure such treatment. EW. Most don't know WHAT to say, so usually they say nothing or say the wrong thing...apparently like your aunt did.

A miscarriage is the death of God's creation. The women I know become very depressed when NO ONE acknowledges when they have this experience. It's out of the comfort zone of most.

A sympathy card is most appropriate and an offer of a service etc might also be helpful. Ie: Running errands, walking the dog, or offering some nice tea time treats or a nice spa basket as a gift.




Edited by Di (10/05/09 11:40 AM)