Gims, I love-love-love your post so much!!! What a sweet light you pour into our grief. I too absolutely believe that they're with us, rooting us on, comforting us and trying in every way to help us KNOW how much we are loved. I have so many caring, tender "Gary-moments", some vivid Mom-moments and a few treasured Dad moments. I swear that the cicadas that are nesting in our front garden are Dad's gift...it's the first time they've ever been here and Dad is one of the only people on earth (er, heaven too, LOL) who would know how much I love cicadas and what a gift they are to me.


Edited by Eagle Heart (08/23/09 09:14 AM)
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