Daisygirl,

I am sad that you're getting hurt but it's good that with only six months invested that you see where your BF's allegience is going to lie. If you're arguing now it will probably only get worse and life's too short. I know you probably don't want to hear this but there are lots of fish in the sea and lots who have adult kids whose situations aren't going to cause problems. I wish you luck, dear heart.
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Dee
"They will be able to say that she stood in the storm and when the wind did not blow her away....and surely it has not.....she adjusted her sails" - Elizabeth Edwards