It is easier I think to except Dots if its the son of both the adults, a married couple who have birthed the kid.

When one is the real parent and the other may be trying to begin a new relationship, that makes all the difference. BUT either or, the young adult should be working even if it means flipping burgers to help with expenses.

By 21 years old any person, male or female needs to be paying his/her own way!!!
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