Madelaine, I join you in sharing that my experience with men is different than some of the women have described in this post. I've been married to the love of my life for almost 30 years. I have total respect for him and he has total respect for me.

Unfortunately, not everyone is in the same boat so I will ask these questions of Jed and I know he will have excellent answers in return.

I happen to know a delightful man in his early 60s. HE's a great catch, and as youmention, he's a widower.
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