gims, interesting that your sister would make that comment. IT proves it's happened in the past and that she's suspicious.

When they are paranoid about taking meds and being poisoned, as my loved one has been, they will actuall pretend to swallow, but keep the pill hidden in the mouth until no one's looking and they put it a kleenex. A pill fell out of my loved ones mothw while talking abbout 15 minutes after he supposedly took it.

I'm glad you're back in your mom's life. There's a reason for it!

DJ, keep doing the online research. It's so helpful. We alerted Mom's doctor of a new cancer drug he'd not yet heard about. Unfortunately, it wasn't perfect for her, but he was glad to learn about it for other patients. I know it's crazy, but some doctors don't have time to read all the journals and sufr the net for the latest so we have to do it for them.