If she does not give your mother anything for her depression, ask why. Ask her what the alternatives for depression are for your mom. My mother has alz, too, and she is taking a med that is working quite nicely for her. She, however, takes few other drugs at this time.

My dad was always good to his mother too, but not so much his MIL. He was never, ever cruel or neglectful, but just not as loving and caring as he was for his own mother. It seems to me that as a woman, we are more likely to love equally - blood or not.
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