my last thread seems to be locked and i am not sure why. is it not ok for me to speak about myself and my process?

please refer me to any rules that indicate that i have done anything wrong.

i like to settle my differences in public, not behind closed doors. i find close-door discussions can be bullying.

i am trying to understand. i know people have their preferences and if i have done something wrong, please state it for all to see so that i can be used as an example to others.

thank you

You haven't done anything wrong, trust me, and the post was locked to keep anyone from responding to it. We asked that if you have a problem in the forums, please let us know. We will do everything we can to handle it. Also, please see your recent PM from me. It explains this in more detail. I've also unlocked your post.

Again, we asked that if you have a problem with someone in the forums, please take it outside of the forums. That is our policy. We will be happy to help in any way we can.

Thank you!

the last welcome post locked now unlocked so we all to talk or answer in the other post or this one?

i move back to the other post as thats weer the questions are, since its been unlocked is that what we to do now?

JJ have we to answere to the last post or not?

it was locked its not now your last post asked us not to responded i am confused if thats part of the lockedness or not?

frenklie i am confused and unseattled being a simple soul its easie to confuse me but ther was some good questions in the last thread that id like to chat about. sure it could be subdivided into seperate catigories but i think seeks intension is to have a descusion about her in her welcome thread becouse it allow anyone to read about who she is before entering into a relashionship with her, i take it thats the logic if i may speek for seek i belive i also done the same in my welcome post and i also didn't know the other catogories to well within the forum.

so to save repeating myself WHEER in godness name do we respond?
heer or their?

the other "non-traditional woman" thread seems to be locked now. i was just going to link to the "whine" thread where i posted my response. i guess i will do it here if anyone cares to read my analysis of what has taken place:

http://www.boomerwomenspeak.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=171418&#Post171418

I am sure your analises will create more for people to chew over, well as you said you do like a good debate lol.

Alas i decline your kind invitasion to read the analises as my thinking of whats going on heer would have me assume that the potencial for hurt or more bikerring would be great.

i sure the bikerring about this could go on for a long time, juging from my limited experinse of the last 2 threads we have been in together, i am sure their be more misrepritensation and aligasion and judging by my encounter of you the last 2 time you won't let it drop but keep going on in the same manner with the same alligasion, in fact i am sure their be many more added by now.

I can argue with you untill your blue in the face if you want lol and if ther be a point to it and in public as you seem to whish but theirs new commers to think of apart from yourself.

I also think that with every word i give you you will find the same and more critisisum to gleem from my words lol. Based soley on my limited knowlage of you and how you conduct your descusions which was the point i was have been trying to make for a long time, well since i stoped sticking up for you.

As long as it makes you feel better who am i to stop you but are you thinking of anyone else heer apart from yourself and what you want?
don't answere that its just a question for you to mull over if you care to.

I see the other thread in welcome has been locked and for good reason id expect. I am sure this one will probablie be locked too as its also in the welcome post and i would welcome that lol.

But if this make you feel better and is all about who or what you are then you continue. It is not what i am about so i will stop for the sake of others.
Just know thats its becouse of the others and newcommers that i stop, its not about not whishing to face or hide from you that i stop.

so on you go have the last word from this post now as i am sure you be in in a while to comment or furtheir your ...whatever it is your doing!?.

if you post in the whine section then fine as i feel that it might be a good place for you to post regarding this topic.

take care and see ya about no doubt.

the only thing i will say here is that i only posted her to provide the link to the whine section. i think that is where any further discussion takes place, but like you, i see little reason to continue on in this vein.

seek, I closed the whine section because I believe we've discussed this over and over. I will now close this forum. I ask that you please not try to rehash this in another forum. Thank you.