WELCOME Eeyore, to this fabulous forum. You did the right thing by just jumoing in and later on we will learn more about you as you learn about us.

My Ex was a stick in the mud, boring was among his other charming (cough, cough) charistics. How is hubby in all other departments? Has he had a check-up lately? Maybe he has high blood pressure which will zap a mans strength. Does he still work otherwise? If so maybe his idea of a vacation is just laying around. To each his own.

If he is a good guy normally to you and you're happy, let it go and concentrate on his better qualities. Maybe he felt you had all the company you needed with the kids there.
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