Abby, please feel free to vent here whenever you want. It must feel as though you have lost a daughter, but in reality, you must be an incredible mom for her to make such a wonderful life for herself. Step back, take a look at yourself. It's YOUR time, my friend. Are you married? If so, what would you like to see happen within your marriage? More fun time? More trips? Less? Want to kick him to the curb? Whatever...got hobbies? Want some new ones?

I say this gently because I care, not because I want to hear myself spout off, but you've done this wonderful job raising your children and now, that's over. Be there for support when they need it, but they have their own paths to follow.

They cannot be responsible for your happiness in this life. And shouldn't be. But you can be! Isn't that cool? You now have the time to make ME choices. Do it for yourself! You deserve it.

I'm sending happy thoughts your way!