Chick, I don't know the author of the book but I am having breakfst with Karen this Saturday so I will try to find out.

This is the first I have seen her, since the funeral although we email frequently, me daily.

She has always been my sister's best friend from before grade school but since the death she is grafitating to me some. She is looking for strength to help or insights. I have always been the "different one" and right now, I think that is intriguing to her. My sister is the comfort, like mac and cheese. I'm a taco!

I hope to meet her goals on her movement through grief. I feel guilty about this too, because I should have been the widow instead of her. But I am blessed everyday that I am not.

Keep us posted. If I learn anything helpful, I'll pass it along.

Lynn