LJ, you are so right about us internalizing all of this and considering what it's going to be like for us.

chatty, does your mom have many living friends or family?
I hate to say it, but there's soemthing to dropping dead of a heart attack. I know it's a shock to everyone left behind, but it's much better than living a long and lonely life, or suffering with some disease.
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