Eagleheart..I hear you. Yes, there are certain experiences that you have to face..and work on..and then come out on the otherside..yes..yes. And some give so much pain and darkness that they have to be revisited over and over again..when the time is right..so that you can forgive or be ok with not forgiving, but perhaps understanding..

I am sighing here because it has taken me a lifetime..but I do believe that since you are facing up to what it is you have avoided..NOW..and you feel that the time is right..then it IS right..and, as you say..you will find your peace.

Kindess to others..but we have to be kind to ourselves,too..otherwise the equation won´t work. Or what do you think? It´s not always easy to be kind to yourself..not easy at all..and that brings up the question: what comprises the kindness that I give to others? Or does it bring up this question at all?
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"some sacred place.."