Di: My heart goes out to women, childness, not by choice. I have a relative who loves children dearly. While a teenager, her love for kids was so obvious! Some ladies kept telling her: "When you grow up, you won't be able to have kids".

I thought that was so mean, even when they were friends and not saying it in a harsh way.

It turns out, her and her husband never had kids-his problem.

Although she deals with it, I'm sure it hasn't been easy, especially when she remembers those out-of-place comments.

[ January 18, 2006, 05:55 PM: Message edited by: Songbird ]