Anne, I can understand your thoughts. I'm still "seeing" a guy half my age. Mentally I fight it all the time, but darn it, I like him. And he makes no secret of the fact that he likes me.

The other night he came over for dinner and I pulled out the food processor. He smiled and said "my grandmother has one just like that." And I replied, "Sweetie, I got this when I got married the first time, before you were born." And we both laughed.

It is what it is. No, it most likely won't last, and we both know that. But for now we're both getting something we need out of it.

Twenty years from now, I do not want ot look back and say "geez, I wish I'd done that." And I'm not just talking about relationships here, but life. It's short. Enjoy the good times, those memories help get through the bad times.

Interesting study Casey. I'd love to find a guy close to my age. Truthfully, I've been looking for years. They're either all alot younger, or alot older, which is probably why I'm still single.

Whirlwind