Kate, while you point out some of the things you would do differently, you must also realize that you must have done a lot right too! IT might be helpful for you to make a list of what you did right, also. You don't have to do it here if you don't want, just a suggestion. I have a feeling your eyes will be opened to your goodness within the situation!
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