Thanks to all who responded to me. I'm feeling much more able to handle things. Chuck is going to visit his mother alone on Monday. She really gets upset when I'm not with him, but I honestly can't be with her right now.

Hubby likes to imply I'm not dealing well with all this because my antidepressents aren't working right. They're working fine, thank you. Guess he didn't realize how bad things were before I started taking them.

Thanks again for the support.