As I ponder what to do about the future for me and the kids, one topic of worry is the house.
Can I keep the house so as not to further unsettle the kids, can I afford to live there and make pmts when my spouse has lost his mind and will probably live in denial forever? And then I think about the possibility of working out an arrangement, or buying something where my mom could come to live with the kids and me when she's ready. I really don't want her to move to an assisted living place or a retirement community. I know she thinks that she doesn't want to burden her kids, but I don't think it would be a burden. Sure it might be difficult if she were to become very ill or disabled, but I think I would rather know that she was loved and cared for by my brothers, kids and me than in a place where she had to rely on strangers. Anyone faced this situation?