People in their 70's - 80's come from a totally different world than what's going on in today's society. Some of them keep up with the times and others hang on to the values their parents raised them with and there really isn't much we can do if they don't let us -- if you say to them -- I'm worried about you -- they say don't be.

I like the bumper sticker I saw the other day

Be kind to your children -- they're the ones picking your nursing home [Smile]

Let's hope that when it's our turn to be taken care of by family members -- we remember how hard our parents made it on us to help. [Smile]