If you are talking about what I think you are.. then I am SO GRATEFUL that you filed with the police. I disclosed something quite similiar many many years ago to my grandfather. He was shocked and hurt as you are. I could see it in his face and I was just about 10 yrs old. In those days, there was really no name for it. And no discussions in newspapers and tv, etc. My mother didn´t have the courage to do anything about it. I had to go on living in my usual circumstance. To this day, my mother and I have not spoken about anything..she says it never happened. However, my father and I have talked thru everything. The scars will never heal totally..but i have found some understanding of everything so that i can forgive to some degree.. stand by your grandchild and be strong enough to listen and hear what she has to say.. not everyone is.

Good luck and thanks for writing...

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