Hey, that's pretty cool!

Just wondering how anyone deals with the issue of being the 'second hand grandparents'. My D's inlaws live nearby and have unbridled access to the baby. We do visit and they have visited us but fact is, we are indeed the second hand grandparents.It was not my daughter's choice. When she married and became pregnant her hus. found a new job in his parent's hometown, he's very close to them, and they moved there and they have a lovely home near them. It was just something my daughter had to accept if she wanted her man. Our( Hus. and I) relationship is great with the other parents but I can see how it is and am a little hurt.My Hus. says to just make the best of it.

Yup.I do.It still hurts.