New Leaf, you posted somewhere that your husband is a non-believer. Is that a problem for you?

My parents had different views about religion and it was a never ending tension between them. When my father died, and my mom remarried, she found someone who shared her beliefs. I think she was so much happier with her second husband because of this. I also noticed that my mother's urge to explain her viewpoints and justify her religious beliefs stopped when she met her second husband. It was as if it wasn't necessary for her to defend herself to the world any more. She found her peace in her relationship.