TVC15
just sharing my dilema was insightful to me I value all relationships and learn from them all.My issue is where
I am not "heard" but discounted.I have to say things three times and then maybe I am answered.But to be dismissed.
EG. last autumn I requested that we reassessed exchanging gifts.For several reasons.We are now both retired.I have started to support a local hospital and wished to gift money for Christmas use to the childrens ward.The cost of posting is enormous.Mosty I have decluttered and have a non material attitude to belongings.This was ignored .other issues of a more sensitive nature have started.One...where a quote was send by email.I asked her to define the content feeling it went on my "hallowed ground" She seems unaware of bounderies.I have pondered if she is unwell .
Thank you for your reply..
Mountain ash