new attitude, you need to get him out of the home anyway necessary. Claim spousal abuse if you have to. He would, bet on it. I doubt he can get alimony etc. but you'll need a letter from his past employer/employers stating that he quit for NO reason, was NOT fired. You need amunition when going to court and unfortunately lawyers can't always be trusted to tell you what you need. Now at home, do NOT cook for him, do NOT do his laundry, do NOT give him spending money, change your checking/savings account etc. Be smart and ignore him completely. The easier you make it the harder getting rid of him will be. These men turn into begging, crying, pitiful, lying jerks in front of the judge so be prepared....Arm yourself well, the facts will do the rest.

[ February 13, 2006, 08:30 PM: Message edited by: chatty lady ]