Emotionally, don't let him put this load on your shoulders. My ex did this too and after I left him, he tried to get me back for two years. If I was so bad, why did he want me back? They can't look at themselves in the mirror so transfer it to our shoulders. But, inwardly don't accept it because he knows the truth deep down.

Can you show that you didn't work because he didn't want you to? I'd let my atty fight it out for me. This is just awful and I know exactly how you feel. It's so painful and the betrayal is difficult to work through but you will come out a stronger woman for it.

[ January 14, 2006, 12:39 PM: Message edited by: Dianne ]