You file too and be sure you say ADULTERY, don't let this @#$%$#@ get away with anything. He did this to keep the adultery out of the public record so you make sure it gets in. By the way sorry for your situation and welcome to the Boomers. Many here are going through similar things and you'll find plenty of support and comrodery....keep your chin up, it does actually get better with time.

[ January 14, 2006, 10:45 AM: Message edited by: Dotsie ]