Hi there, I have suspected my husband has been having an affair and on wednesday of this week I confronted him. He agreed to a divorce on grounds of adultery. However, I heard today that he had filed for a divorce in the court on the same day I spoke to him, but on my unreasonable behavior. I am in complete shock. It is awful to have things made up. I feel like I've been made out to be the bad person who destroyed our marriage, when he had the affair. Any words to help me get through this ?