Hello girls... I am new to this whole thing and i need advice. I have been married for 7 years and have a 4 year old daughter. My husband and I have never really had the best marriage. He's not mean to me, he's just never really been there for me. He is very dedicated to his job, I feel more so than our marriage. I guess I should be grateful that he atleast works. After we had our daughter I started working part time when she was about a year old. He is always telling me that I should work a fulltime job, yet he works about 70 hours a week and is never around. I am the one who has to do doctor appts. and anything else that comes up. Whenever I have been sick and had to go to the hospital he was never able to take me, my father had to... He was always to busy at work. He's not a very sympathetic person, never really has been. Anyway, we almost got divorced right before I got pregnant with my daughter and since I have had her, I decided to stick it out for her sake. Well, this past year has really been hard. I have realized that I want more in my life and I have recently started singing again and writing music, trying new things to see where they go. Well, ofcourse he thinks I am crazy, no support coming from him. Last Christmas I caught him going into porno sites on the internet. I put a quick stop to that. Since then, he's still on the internet all the time, exspecially on ask men.com. That drives me crazy... He has even turned down sex several times because he was on the internet. Let's see, we have no communication, when he is around he is either watching a movie, the internet or a magazine. We have talked about it and I am lonely and fed up... Am I overreacting??? Please help...