SO,
If you find yourself getting upset try this: Hestitate a fraction of a sec before you answer and look at one of the attorneys and think, "hmm ... his tie is on crooked" or "hmm ... this chair is made of solid oak" or whatever.

Years ago, I found that if I withdrew my emotions from the situation that was upsetting me, even for a fraction of a second to focus on something insignificant, it gave me power. I could regroup instantly, and answer calmly. Sounds crazy, but it worked for me.

JJ