Foundhervoice - I am so sorry to hear about your dad. Please email me if you want. Mom also had lung cancer.

Startingover, are you feeling organized? It is so important that you have all your ducks in a row before the trial. You need to appear as a professional mom.

I once attended a divorce case for a friend. She was totally unprepared. She arrived with a box of papers that were so unorganized I couldn't believe my eyes. She had envelopes she had written messages on, old bills, calendars, all just thrown in a box. It was pitiful.

I know you won't do that, but I have to agree with smile that you must make an excellent impression.

I am praying that God gives you His peace and calm, a settled mind, and honest words to prove your case. You're gonna do well. I can feel it.