Starting Over...please listen to the advice of all of these wise women who have posted above me..and know too that I am praying for you as well...your reputation won't be ruined as you have done nothing wrong...if accusations are thrown your way remain calm and steadfast in your dismissal of them (you notice I didn't say denial) be dismissive and have your lawyer object as well for the record...perhaps we can all meet here on the evening of Feb 6th to celebrate your new life and to toast you...never hesitate to vent...that's why we are here