He sounds to me like a very scared man that is trying everything to NOT have to go to court. Stand tough, hold your ground, you will win this and the accusations of an affair without concrete proof, pictures with the other man and I mean in bed not just out to dinner. You didn't do any of that anyhow so its a dead issue...These rotten bastards are liike bad little boys first they try and bribe us with gifts and by making nice then when we say NO they get all nasty. If any of his latest lies were true he would not get nasty no matter waht. You have more than 3 choices but he seems to know he has NONE and is petrified....Steer clear of this creep and stay safe....