Yes, I actually filed on the grounds of his being investigated for child porn, so it will be part of divorce proceedings. He is currently waiting for sentenceing in federal court on those charges.

I know I'm doing the right thing. The bible even says flee from anyone involved in such things and in another place it says don't even eat with someone who is involved in such things. I have counseled with 4 pastors, all said to divorce so I am OK--I just can't stand the manipulation and underlying threats--it rattles me horribly.