Hi all, I need to vent, need everyone's prayers. Divorce date is FEb 6. Husband is going all out to 'court' me back (all of a sudden) In the last 2 weeks I have gotten flowers delivered, Christmas presents via UPS, text messages at least once a day, e-mails, phone messages. All honey this and Sweetie that. Yesterday I got a 5 page letter stating that God had directed him to continue this onslaught until the divorce/reconsiliation. He listed that he would do this through continued e-mail, text messages ect. He would shower me with gifts etc.--until I let my guard down enough for hugs, kisses, etc.

After many months of not communicating w/him I e-mailed him yesterday. I told him to stop. Stop calling, stop everything. Stop sending gifts and send $$ to pay our bills. So today I got an e-mail tirade of how everything is my fault, I am in sin and God will not bless me if I pursue this divorce and he has accused me of an affair I never had--said he 'heard about it and forgives me'.

At the end he says I have 3 choices. 1. Cease and reconcile marriage. 2. Cease and settle divorce out of court (this means he gets 1/2 and no responsibility to bills) 3. If I want an all out war in court I'll get it.

I've never had an affair so I guess that is in there as a threat that he will accuse me of that in court. I can't believe it. What am I supposed to do?

This is the man who was downloading child porn off the internet and later confessed to gay encounters.

Please pray for me. I am getting very worried that he will come out of this smelling very sweet and I will be completely ruined reputation and financially. I am very frazzled today.