He's probably living off the money he's hoarded and invested.

I had the same expectations of my attorneys and wondered if I too had too high of expectations because of tv shows etc.!

I think we women are just so not in the same space as men and this whole process just takes us all for a loop! It stresses us out, they drag things on, they play difficult or tell their attornies not to cooperate with your attorney....making the process long and painful. They also try to intimidate and scare us.To them it is a game to be won. We just don't see it that way at all. We are in in for survival and our children, they see it as war. We just want to get on with our lives but we do have our children to care for since they don't seem to want the responsibility of the day to day care and they don't want to pay for it either which is the problem.