HI,
I've been there- done that and got beyond it
It is hard- I didn't have any real skills but I got a job- in fact got two
Get a cut throat lawyer- don't be nice- listen to your lawyer- go for it all- play to win because unfortunately it becomes a game
The kids don't need to be in it- this is a dissolution of a business- a marriage contract- it sounds cold but the truth
Don't be bitter- you have a life still. Think of it as a time for you now. Yes, you are exhausted- I wish i could give you a cup of tea and my shoulder to cry on
But look at yourself girl- you single handed raised your son - you have skills there-a hospice, a nursing home.
You will come throgh it- but get a tough lawyer
He has to support his kids- let him be the present bearing parent-just get a good lawyer
And hang in there-you are stronger than you think