Okay, if I tell you this, you're gonna know what a whack job I really am....but whenever I look at my husband's hand and see his wedding ring...well it's a turn on! Is that goofy or what? Every time I see the ring on his hand I get mushy, really. I just think it is so amazing that we're still together and still love each other and he values our marriage enough to wear his ring. Last year when he came back home, it was a big deal to him to put it back on. And it continues to be a big deal to me. Call me loony!