Kathryn,
First of all, if you best friend HATES you, well, I would rethink the "best" friend thing. People who are your real friends don't hate you no matter what happens...they love you unconditionally. I hope that wasn't too strong a message because it was sent out of love, promise. I hope that you will put all of your worries in God's hands as he will not only guide you, but protect you and show you the way. Let God handle it. All you have to do is ask. He will you know!

I am so sorry you are having to go through a divorce, and such a painful one as well. I can only tell you that I will pray that you get through this as quickly as possible so that you can begin anew. I will be thinking of you on that day and sending lots of hugs. Take care of yourself and you have a friend here; unconditionally.