Your daughter will come around, eventually. For now, work on legally taking care of yourself. Find a Legal Aid Office in your area. Call the local shelter (call 1-800-799-SAFE for a shelter) and they can give you a lot of helpful information. You also need an atty that understands domestic violence. It's too late but you should have pressed charges because there isn't much proof now. But, you left. You're safe. Go to my site (www.eadv.net) as a lot of the women have been through the same thing and also have worked our lovely system, which is not always fair. Usually works in favor of the man.