How about we discuss divorce here?

I know I could use help and incite.

I have been twice divorced. My first marriage was because I was young and pregnant... and I divorced by my own choice.

The second was after 20 years of marriage and my husband left me as I was growing and he could no longer control me. He left me for someone younger and easier to control. Now that I look back, no great loss there...

No matter who you are or what you do, or even if you are the one who wants the divorce, it hurts.

It makes you feel like a failure and it also can make you question your sanity. What was I thinking?!? How in the world did I ever fail? I tried so darn hard.

Don't worry... you are sane. Insane things happen to sane people all the time. [Smile] And you are not a failure... the marriage failed... not you.

I have no instant remidies... I just know that talking to other women, sharing and caring, is really going to help me. I hope it does you too.

Write me if you want to talk about divorce. I know it sure will help me out.

Thanks!
Patty