Oh Cathy, I could cry for you right now. I mean it. I would be afraid of losing my daughter as well. Even though your hubby is probably right...in that you won't lose her, the fear is still there that you just might. That would be horrible and for me (and probably you too), I wonder how I could go on living. My girls are precious to me and I couldn't imagine not having them in my life. Interesting though, once that "fly in the ointment"-so to speak, enters the scene (your future SIL), things change and we have to accept change whether we like it or not. Good Luck Cathy, I will keep you in my prayers.
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Pam