The whole problem (within me) boils down to this - I am afraid of losing my dtr over this. I have alot of abandonment issues in my past, and they are just resurfacing with this mess. But I suppose that if this is the way dtr wants to live, then there is not much I can do at this point. Hubby says I will not lose her. But mother instinct says stick up for my child. Such confusion!!!
Diane - you sound just like my hubby.
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Cathy