Cathy, does upsetting the future In Laws = upsetting your daughter?

I vote for two showers too. Let the MIL throw the one she wants where it appears the motive is nice gifts. How selfish! Then, throw yours with friends who want to be there and aren't interested in anything other than seeing your daughter experience joy and friendship.

If your daughter isn't interested in doing this, I say, let her have the shower with the greedy, soon to be relatives. I know it would be sad for you but honestly if my daughter did this to me, she'd have a boot stuck up her @#$ in a size 7.

If your daughter loves you, she should be upset at how you're being treated and not set you up for these confrontations. I wouldn't meet with those people without my husband right beside me.
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